
my roommate refused to take out their trash for a MONTH. our dorm smelt like a fast food place. i ended up taking it out and cleaning out their fridge because they refused after I constantly reminded them to. like im not your mother? I take care of my side, the least you can do is take care of your side. š«©
Last night she deadass put her laundry in the living room on the coffee table instead of putting it away and made roasted vegetables (used a different bowl to toss and season each vegetable) and proceeded to move the couch to her room (discussed and allowed) and in the process of moving the couch knocked over her several days-old fast food sodas onto the floor and left them there. Did not clean up the sodas, did not do a single dish, did not put her laundry away. Tell me why she comes home after
When I had a roommate we had an agreement that heād do the dishes and Iād take the trash out- well he started to only do his own dishes because I wasnāt drying them and putting them away (bc that was not the agreement, I just did it a time or two to help him out), so I threw away my stuff in a separate trash bag and only took out my own. He let the trash overflow, got pissy at me, and eventually convinced his boy toy of the week to take care of it because he was ādepressedā
They have their own trashcan and it was smelling? And you were in a dorm room? Tell them to take it out or you will take action into your own hands. If they donāt, then their trash can gets emptied on their sheets and spread around. They can come home to the mess. Guaranteed, they start changing their behavior.
2) Class today and gets pissed at ME for the soda on the floor and her laundry not being put away and the dishes not being done?? She goes āid really appreciate it if you could help clean up the living room and kitchen, this is kind of getting ridiculous.ā Name ONE object out here thatās mine. Find one, and name it. And that is the object i will clean up.
no honey thatās not how that works. weāre all adults we have responsibilities. you donāt get to negate the bare minimum responsibilities of cleaning up after yourself in a communal home just because you dont feel like it. there are health risks and one person cannot and SHOULD not be the sole person designated to clean up after more than one college adult especially when neither of these peers know each other. nobody has to do shit for others weāre not here to serve anyone but ourselves