Anonymous #1 1w

no but im on the verge of losing it with her she’s such a cunt

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Anonymous #2 1w

she’s just a bitch i’m a legal adult whos older than her yet she acts like this bc “i’m not what she wanted in a roommate” her words not mine

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Anonymous OP 1w

Damn ew

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Anonymous OP 1w

What do you do? Please dont tell me you stink up the room or leave trash anywhere and take it down at least 5 times a week. Normally if shes “mothering” you its for a reason. Now if its not for a reason (a reason. Not just one you dont like) then talk to your ra about moving.

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Anonymous #3 1w

from what i gathered and what she told me she doesn’t like me sleeping in or or having to be quiet in the morning that i leave messes (the mess was a bowl in the sink for 2 days max bc our other roommates filled the sink with dishes) she thinks that since i had clothes on my side of the room that she never goes on to was a problem and i would fail my classes because of it - mind you she hasn’t talked to me about this! she waits until she had enough and blows up and i couldn’t tell she was mad as

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Anonymous OP 1w

it’s hard for me to see social ques and she hates i go to bed late but i turn away so she can’t see the light i put on headphones i do everything i can not to disturb her but idk she just acts very entitled and i was thrown off by her comment of i wasn’t what she wanted in a roommate

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Anonymous OP 1w

I definitely would talk to the head of your roommate situation about that. Just seems like two nagging personalities. As someone who is not a noght owl, a roommate who is a noght owl is hell. She comes in very late, wakes me up, makes a mess, etc and has friends over. That being said its not her fault necessarily. Could she be nicer yea. But thats a discussion for ra. Now if she was upset for literally no reason (ie her leaving out a pan then getting mad youre not washing it. Because unwashed

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Anonymous OP 1w

Dishes are nasty for more than a day. I couldnt stand the smell especially but once again thats me) that would be her fault but it sounds to me that its nobodies fault per say and just two personalities that wont clash right and will end up turning into bigger issues. Definitely try talking to her and telling her youre going higher because neat freak and someone who doesnt care as much will not be fun for either of you two 😭 good luck!

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Anonymous OP 1w

i also have a rm that sleeps in all the time but she skips legit ALL her classes so it is irritating if the other is a morning person. and if ur moving around at night a lot too and ur beds are close it is lowkey hard to sleep if she's a light sleeper like me 😭 though mine fts loudly so its different. work on trying to move out cuz yall just don't fit tg, and that's ok

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Anonymous #5 1w

i set boundaries with her telling her she needs to communicate if i’m doing something wrong she cannot just blow up at me and i told her she isn’t allowed to throw my learning disability back in my face (i told that to her as a courtesy) and after i set this boundary she decided to sleep in her car and living room in an attempt to guilt trip me and i’ll admit it worked but then afterwards our mutual friends stopped hanging out with me and only her

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Anonymous #4 1w

the thing with that is she wear earbuds to sleep, an eyemask, i put a cover over my keyboard so the typing isn’t as loud i have done everything i think is possible but she is just really pissed i’m not a morning person and our dorms didn’t set her with someone who is also a morning person - she didny know she had to FIND someone like that herself

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Anonymous #3 1w

i know my whole thing is she has talked and i think threatened (kinda) with leaving and not returning next semester my bf said if she keeps threatening it she is most likely not coming back next semester and idk if when i put in a roommate switch request if it will twll my other roommates bc the others are all super sweet and amazing it’s just the girl i share a room with that’s the problem

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Anonymous OP 1w

that and she leaves constantly like she’s been going home constantly so i feel like she isn’t coming back she overall - but i can definitely see where i might have pissed her off when i told her i’d do the dishes after my homework she blew up saying that wasn’t the point and atp it felt like she was taking all her aggression of the situation about not getting the room or specific type of roommate she wanted she wanted me to feel that? she didn’t hit me but she became very defensive

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Anonymous OP 1w

a bit of context is she’s never had to share a room with another girl and i harv and i just dont mind that much about things bc i live my life she lives here that’s i figured she would act when we talked over the summer

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Anonymous OP 1w

thats a sucky situation overall. shes being manipulative and immature.

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Anonymous #5 1w

yeah my friends have told me to stop telling her stuff which i plan on doing it’s just frustrating because she takes up majority of the space and is never here and when she confronted me a blew up she had one of our mutuals in the room i think in an attempt to intimidate me and tell me they are closer and i’m automatically in the wrong and i told her never to do that bc it was very fucked up then she did all of that and said the only reason was because she was afraid i would blow up - mind you i

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Anonymous OP 1w

don’t blow up i’m very mellow nothing really gets me mad and it just felt like she did it to get that mutual friend on her side and it kinda confirmed to me that they talked about me behind my back so i was definitely blindsided

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Anonymous OP 1w

wow shes extremely immature 😭 please try to move out and she shouldn't even be blowing up in front of u for no reason, esp if front of someone else. id also bring it up to any ra or even a res director if u guys have one, so u can move out faster bc nobody should be yelling in ur face

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Anonymous #4 1w

she wasn’t yelling in my face but she was still getting frustrated and raising her voice when i tried explaining i’d be happy to fix whatever made her upset she just got frustrated and changed the subject to i think try and get me mad which is why she brought up my adhd i think to try and get me mad in front of our mutual friend but i am going to talk to my RA bc while we have sorted it we haven’t really (she tried to sleep in her car and i told her it’s okay and we can just have a fresh start)

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Anonymous OP 1w

but i honestly shouldn’t have bc now i feel like i’m walking around on eggshells around her even when she takes up most of the small space we have i’m just frustrated bc i’m graduating and i wanted this year to be great but it’s not

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