have you spoken to / checked up on her. she could be going through a depressive episode. it’s frustrating for sure, but it could be something more serious than laziness

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I had a roommate like this and literally no matter what I did, said, yelled she never changed and she did have some mental illness which I respected but at a certain point you can’t be their care giver anymore. My recommendation is get her a boyfriend that cleans for her lol that’s what I did

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as someone who experienced the same thing last year with mine, trust me you gotta put ur foot down. i tried being nice about it and it got me nowhere. u lowkey have to be stern

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Are u in a dorm or apartment

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Literally my roommate she never leaves, cleans or anything

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OH MY GOD SAME. the past two days has been in bed ALL DAY. only left the room once

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Bruh ts stresses me out

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coming from someone who's been this roommate, it is very very likely she's struggling mentally, so I'd recommend having an RA or other peer advisor reach out to her if your attempts at open but stern communication have failed. Maybe she isn't doing well, but you deserve a better living environment and she needs support and possibly a wakeup call.

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