Since he got sick I wouldn’t judge immediately him on the not cleaning or doing laundry thing. How often do you expect people to be cleaning and doing laundry anyway? Cleaning, sure, I could see a bit happening daily but even once every week would be more than most college students do, and for laundry I’ll usually go two weeks or so before I’m out of clothes. Is it stinking up the room or something? That being said, the fact that he offers to clean instead of just doing it isn’t a great sign