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All my roomates just said their bfs will all be saying here at the same time for a whole week…am I wrong to be a little annoyed like a week is a long time and they didn’t ask if it’s ok and I’m the only single one 🥲ik I can’t say no but I hate being sing
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Anonymous 1w

My roommate does the same expect she tells me the day before that he’s coming and it drives me insane. I already feel awkward with her in her I hate that she thinks he can just come here every month

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Anonymous 1w

you definitely have a right to say you’re not comfortable! is this dorms?

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Anonymous 1w

So are you upset that their bfs will be there or are you upset that you don’t have a boyfriend?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yes it’s so annoying and like I would be fine if I only had like 1-2 roomates but I have 3. So like 3 guys will be staying here for a week?? Am I allowed to say the apartment complex has a rule for how long overnight guests can stay or is that petty…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i’d say there’s a limit. three guys is crazy. and one week is a long duration. say they can come but only for ___ # of days (however many you feel comfortable with). at the end of the day you live there and pay rent, the men don’t have a say.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Oh my goodness that’s horrible definitely tell them that they can only have guests over for a certain amount of days! That’s crazy to have people staying over an entire week

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Problem is I think they already booked plane tickets to get here so I think they’d just say he has no where else to stay. Ughhh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

It’s an apartment, but I think apartment complexes usually list a limit too

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

More that their bfs will be here all at once, it’s just kind of like an ambush idc to have a bf but I feel really singled out rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Fair enough

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