Anonymous #1 4d

lol it’s my first post too!! She drove me to a point where i keep almost everything i own in my bedroom because i just really don’t trust her. She used to say things while i was making dinner along the lines of “those need to be clean by 6 pm tomorrow” (in reference to dishes being used)

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Anonymous #1 4d

What did yours do, if you don’t mind me asking?

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Anonymous OP 4d

my old bff roommate would have her bummy bf over everyday (he didn’t pay rent, but he was cool so i mostly didn’t mind) i told her i think he should be there less since it’s every day and i want privacy, she didn’t make any changes. he would eat my food too. atp her cats had fleas and she treated the situation like it was my fault and a huge inconvenience to her. (she was staying at a hotel 20-25 mins away for the weekend for an event w her bf and bf’s family, complained when i told her to buy-

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Anonymous #1 4d

flea collars for the cats, said she “wasn’t rich”, they were $5.) imo, if u can’t afford basic medicines and necessities for your cats, you shouldn’t be taking 4 days off from work and go hangout and spend money at an event. mind you she always worked part time. she also got defensive when i told her we had to clean the house (& i emphasized NOT bc it was dirty but simply to KILL the fleas) and she said she always cleans (she did, im not saying she didn’t. she did mass majority of the chores, i-

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Anonymous #1 4d

worked full time and was attending school full time. i wasn’t home much and if i was i was in my room or office, i wasn’t in living spaces often and if i was i’d clean up after myself. but yeah id say she typically did more cleaning. anyways, she came home from the trip, gave them medicine, put flea collars on them, and left. didn’t clean the house, didn’t give them a bath, nothing. so i come home (after working and going to school) late asf, PISSED asf bc i couldn’t understand why she wasn’t -

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Anonymous #1 4d

taking care of her cats. gave both of them a bath (which was hard bc they were not desensitized), cleaned the whole house, placed baking soda in doorways, i did everything i could to make sure we no longer had fleas. AND THEY WERENT EVEN MY CATS. i told her i began thinking about moving out, but later i told her i wasn’t going to. fast forward a few weeks, it’s now my 21st bday and SHE planned to do 1 final illegal shot and a first legal shot at midnight. it was a wednesday night, i had work -

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Anonymous #1 4d

that day and the following day, AT 5am. i took a nap while she was at her bfs, asked my bf at the time to make sure i was up by 11-11:30p in case she didn’t wake me up. he woke me up via ft and SHE WAS NOT HOME. i took the shots myself and went back to sleep so disappointed. in that moment i decided i was moving out. she’s also done similar things to her sister and parents, so even tho i was disappointed, ultimately i wasn’t really surprised. once i found a new place (that lowkey was also-

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Anonymous #1 4d

bad lol) i sat her day and told her “hey, listen, i love you, you’re my best friend and no matter what i still wanna stay friends, but im moving out.” i told the landlord (family friend of HERS btw) and she was cool. my roommate wouldn’t talk to me at all until i moved out. she distanced herself from me completely. one day my ld bf came down (mind u i told her the days he was coming, it was on our calendar, and i told her if she didn’t want him there to tell me and i’ll figure smth else out,-

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Anonymous #1 4d

he comes down and i leave for work the next morning and he’s in the house without me. roommates texts me asks if my bf is there and i say yes. landlord texts me and says he has to go (2hrs before my shift is done mind you, and this has NEVER been an issue before, he’s been there plenty while i was at work) i ignore her message, tell him to just stay in my room and i’ll handle it when i get there. when i leave work i learn that they kicked my bf out, roommates mom came in yelling at him, beating-

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Anonymous #1 4d

my door down, landlord is letting it all happen, roommate is letting it all happen. bf calls me and im HEATED. my momma don’t play so i called her and MY mom showed up at my house and goes to beat on my ROOMMATES door (lol). her mom and landlord is already gone. roommate blamed it “on the mom”, but yeah no that’s just stupid. it’s never been an issue before it wouldn’t have been an issue now. apparently the mom was talking about how i had “some promise to fulfill?” and that it’s “wrong im-

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Anonymous #1 4d

That’s a lot but it does actually sound pretty similar to my situation as well! I’m so down to hear more roommate drama (I’ve had a TON and everything has been wild on my end but I can’t elaborate on that later)

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Anonymous OP 4d

omg yes i’d love to hear more of ur drama, can i dm u?

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Anonymous #1 4d

Of course!!

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