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Roommate Rants 30w
I feel like nobody gets me because my roommates aren't even bad but it's upsetting that I can never relax at my place because I just don't feel like our personalities click. Just little stuff but it gets so irritating bc I'm around them all day everyday
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Anonymous 30w

i'm literally in the same exact boat and it's sooo exhausting 😭

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Anonymous 30w

My roommates are besties so I fell you 100%. They will never connect with me because they already got each other I literally feel like a hamster in someones apartment

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Anonymous 30w

I legit feel like this in every dynamic family, friend groups and roommates. All because I’m autistic and I’m like super high masking but they can tell I’m not normal. And immediately I’m disliked without even saying a word it’s very frustrating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 30w

IM ALSO DEALINF WITH THIS, i have suite mates and the ones across the bathroom are best friends and then my actual roomate we just don't click 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 30w

😭 feeling like a hamster is actually such a good way to put it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 30w

yeah like I would say I'm just friends with them but they're definitely best friends with each other and I just don't fit

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Update: they moved out after graduating and all connections were lost 🥲but I found out some flaws they had and reaching out doesn’t feel necessary low key

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Didnt mean to reply to you solely but yeah I fully agree with your comment. Im autistic and used to be fixated on human behavior and social cues so I feel like im great in convos. But like the mask slips once and they start treating me different. Also i’ve learned that sometimes ppl fear ppl with genuine intentions because they have trust issues. So it’s not necessarily that they think you aren’t normal, they just have their own issues to deal with. Fuck them and keep being you😌

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