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How do I stop being a people pleaser? I keep letting my roommate use my stuff and if I ask to borrow something she always says yes but never gets it.
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Anonymous 1d

Eventually you’ll get exhausted, you’ll start putting up boundaries, and they’ll throw a fit. At least that’s what happened to me.

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Anonymous 16h

Watch Tokyo Toni she’s my role model

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m getting exhausted but I have no idea how to put up boundaries. Plus we’re sharing a room and she goes immediately for my stuff when she needs something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

tell her she cant use your stuff anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I agree

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