When I lived with my friend off campus for the first time I found something in their price range (so it was their price rangex2) to make them more comfortable. Now we’re even closer as friends and if we were to live together again I would be really honest and say “I have these preferences we may not be able to get in your price range. Here is mine. Can we do my price range+yours?” And just have to be ok paying more since they’re my friend. It doesn’t have to be dramatic or a big deal
Because all you did was complain, if you’re not on her level don’t bitch about it. Move on and get a cheaper roomie 😘 no hate on having parents that were able to provide for you (as someone who’s parents are not involved in my finances) but I don’t hate on those that do get help because I would too if it was offered.
No babes that’s not okay if you simply cannot or don’t want to afford that much speak that. You guys should both be comfortable. Not just one person yes I get you guys are the best of friends. But I wouldn’t want my friend to sacrifice her comfort. You guys live together so it should be a together thing.
No that’s what I’m saying. I make more money than them now that we’re not students anymore. So I could afford let’s say 1200 where they might only be able to do 700 now. Previously we both did 800. I wouldn’t want to downgrade by both doing 700. So I would say “because you’re my friend, I’m comfortable paying more, it’s not a big deal, can we look at places that are 1900 not 1400?”
Oh okay well that makes sense My apologies I misinterpreted the last part of your first comment. But yeah I mean as long as you guys are communicating that’s fine. But some ppl don’t they go get these expensive apartments and don’t even consider their friends wishes. It’s easier to live with ppl that have the same wish and finances as you. Cause that alone can ruin some friendships