Anonymous #1 3w

just adding to my thought since OP hasn’t responded: A lot of people who enter college with no friends are excited to have a roommate to hangout with and form a friendship with. That doesn’t mean your automatically obligated to however you could just simply consider her position if u were in her shoes and had no friends and she had a group she never wanted you apart of. just mean girl energy tbh. that’s all hope you have a great day:)

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Anonymous #1 3w

i feel like its not mean to expect a tiny bit of personal space with someone i share a room with nevertheless i wouldnt mind if she tried making her own friends and was struggling but shes just completely content to have me as her only friend i also should have put in the original post that she doesnt like to go out, stay up late, etc so ill make plans with my friends and she'll guilt trip me into cancelling because she "doesnt want to go" and "doesnt want to be alone"

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Anonymous #1 3w

should have said it better but shes awake when she does it its her way of flipping to the other side i honestly think shes just heavy handed because she also slams doors and i dont think its on purpose lol

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Anonymous #2 3w

she is choosing to have no other friends which is the most annoying bit id be content to share the same friend group and ive introduced many of my friends but she always makes some off-handed comment 😐

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Anonymous OP 3w

she might’ve just been raised a bit more sheltered then most and again i totally get it to not want her everywhere at the end of the day that’s on her for not wanting to make the effort when you actually invite her out i honestly think it sounds like ur her default friend because she doesn’t know how to make any or is insecure abt it either way not on u you’ve done what you could best advice i would say is to just kindly let her know that you appreciate how much she wants to hang but that you 1/

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Anonymous #1 3w

also wanna hangout with your other friends and that she’s more than welcome to join however you won’t be canceling for her. if she gets upset so be it she’s a big girl and can get over it

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Anonymous #1 3w

as for the sleeping i still wouldn’t say there’s much you could do everyone gets cozy differently all i could offer there is getting some ear plugs i sleep w them personally cause my bf grinds his teeth and it makes my skin crawl

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