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my rm barely speaks to me, won’t answer any messages in our gc, etc. she keeps using my things and putting them back wrong or not at all. i told her when we moved in she could use my things but now i want her to stop. how do i say it nicely but still firm
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Anonymous 15h

ive honestly been hiding my stuff because she will use it then leave it in her room for days

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Anonymous 15h

“I know I said it was ok to use my things but I’ve noticed you having been respecting them or me. I’d rather you ask before using my stuff from now on”

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Anonymous 13h

I asked for a rm meeting and told them they weren’t cleaning or respecting my items so I’d appreciate if they got their own and stopped using mine. They threw a tantrum but did agree to it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

SHE DOES THIS TOO!! our rooms are small so i don’t want to keep my things in my room (which would also empty out our kitchen since its 95% my stuff) but i might have too 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

i have a cart that i just put some stuff on but i literally went in there the other day to get a glass of mine that shes had in there for a week and so now im just gonna hid some of it but shes so self unaware she keeps doing it

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