
I think it’s a bit harsh but as someone who ends up doing more household stuff than others I get your frustration. I think it would have been better to say “I would like to make a chore list, here’s why. Can we agree upon who will do what soon?” But I am not good with tone especially when frustrated so I can see why you wrote it this way. Also idk about you but I have a tendency to over explain myself sometimes it’s better to just be concise rather than send a lot of texts in a row.