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Ok so my roommate keeps having her bf over like every freaking day and honestly it’s getting annoying he’s loud and nasty and honestly rude I wanna tell my RA but I don’t like conflict and like she’s cool and all but girl it gets to a point…
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Anonymous 1w

Talk to your roommate first about this issue but don’t be afraid to talk to your RA. It is your room too and she also needs to respect that. If talking gets you nowhere it’s ok to talk to your RA to get a second opinion and some help, that is why they are there.

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Anonymous 1w

no def talk to ur roomie, you’re paying for the room too don’t let her take advantage by not saying anything

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Anonymous 1w

I would definitely have a conversation with my roommate first and see how that goes based on how that conversation plays out then go to the RA if it gets too bad.

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Anonymous 1w

Def talk to her first but it’s just as much your space as it is hers. If she doesn’t listen (if you want to be courteous you could give her another warning even tho she wouldn’t deserve it) but consult with the ra. If she gets mad at you for doing that then shes just selfish and can’t take accountability.

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Anonymous 1w

not that this matters lowkey at all but does she atleast have the decency of letting you know when he’s coming or does he just show up? or you’ll get home and he’s just there in your space?

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Anonymous 1w

girl i would snitch so fast

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Anonymous 1w

1. Talk to roommate first. 2. Get a written agreement about times/days that visitors are allowed. 3. If this doesn’t work, then talk to RA

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Anonymous 1w

You deffo talking abt me. Crazy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

If you think this is about you then maybe you need to fix your behavior :o

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I mean if ur bf is rude & nasty then…maybe that’s saying something

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Anonymous 1w

even that she can’t send a courtesy text like “oh just lyk he’s here so if you come back soon he might be here.” That wouldn’t excuse it but maybe soften the blow a bit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

He isn’t but for some reason she thinks he is

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I have. And also I would prefer it if she had talked to me sooner. Instead of gossiping behind my back

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Your poor roommate…I don’t think ik u cause I have a meeting with my roommate and RA about our situation so…good luck for you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s not entirely my fault. I feel bad but I really wish she would talk to me when something bothers her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Ok you’re definitely not my roommate I’ve spoken to her about it before she ignored me…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Crazy victim mentality💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

When did I say I was the victim?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

That’s wild. I’m sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

“You deffo talking about me. Crazy”

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