Ok so background: My roommate used to almost never lock the door and act like I was overreacting about that making me not feel safe until she got high one night and got anxious. Then she acted like it was her idea to have the door locked more/regularly. Now only half the time locks the door. Her friend that’s over half of every week (has a key) almost never locks the door when he leaves and its fine when people are home but when people aren’t it gets on my nerves and makes me nervous
one time i was so tired upon getting back to my dorm i fucking LEFT MY KEYS in the lock. i was staying there alone on the top floor bc it was winter break, so thankfully not many people were around, but man i was so mad ab it. the doors lock by themselves too but it seriously scared tf out of me
That might be the most condescending comment I've ever seen 😭 You think they haven't had private conversations? You think this is their first time talking about it out loud? You think they're five years old and can't think for themselves enough to try and figure it out before commenting about it on here? "Let's think of healthy solutions ✨" like you're a teacher talking to a kindergartener. Please grow up and learn to give others the benefit of the doubt before assuming shit.