
Hate to break it to you but I’m with comment 1. The people that go into new roommate relationships with bestie expectations are red flags. As long as they’re clean and pay rent on time idgaf what they do in their own space. You’re taking what they’re doing too personally when actually their world doesn’t revolve around you.
I agree with comment 1 but I get where you’re coming from. If they don’t leave their bed maybe check on their mental health if you think something’s going on. But it they can just do their work on their computer and not have to go to class then like yeah I see no problem with it. Maybe if you haven’t tried talking to them about it, try that and see if that helps any. But again I can see both sides of it here
This is honestly insanely entitled. If u want alone time, get a single. They paid for their part of the room, they get to use it/exhaust in it how they’d like. Part of having a roomie is having someone around 24/7. Yea it sucks but it’s not their fault and u learn to find alone time elsewhere. Expecting them to leave randomly and according to ur schedule and when u happen to be there is fucking hilarious.
I'm getting downvoted but legitimately it's like y'all are in that space to have a place to live. Not to be buddy buddy. You don't have to be best friends or even friends at all, and expecting someone to be friends with you just because you're living in a shared space is honestly major red flag behavior. Now they shouldn't be a dick, that's something entirely different. But just not being social is not a bad thing