1/2 My friend/roommate is cool but she spends so much time trying to get me to drink/smoke with her bc her old smoke buddy went to jail (heinous crimes). I’ve told her that I’m on meds that don’t let me drink & pre-med. How do I get her to stop pushing…
without saying that her life’s a mess and I don’t want to live like her.
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AnonymousOP4w
first off, maybe don’t think of her life as a mess nor that your life is better than hers? And then tell her you don’t smoke/drink—her asking if you want to join isn’t pressure—it’s her way of trying to connect with you.