
They shit talking me in the kitchen then ask me to jump their car and drop off their birth control and I do it for them everytime they ask for lower rent and I take the hit for them existing in my house upsets them so I leave I pay for all the disposables never asking to be reimbursed i handle all repairs without asking them to do anything I stop inviting people over cause they make my friends feel uncomfortable, I do their dishes without saying a thing, but i still don’t know if i can be mean
Okay this situation got genuinely more serious with what you just posted - you are clearly upset about this - you are not a bad person from what I’ve gathered - they are leaving which is fantastic but I would honestly just let them leave and as soon as they are out no way coming back in I would say something about the original post - on a separate note you should stand up for yourself and ask for a reimbursement with receipts or numbers before they leave PLEASE DO NOT LET THEM USE YOU AND YOUR $
Idk why I guess to make things easier idk why I usually don’t stand up for myself when it comes to them I rationalizing for them cause it’s not like we didn’t used to be friends but when i dropped the sorority they stopped treating me like a friend or even a person I don’t know if they realize they are as mean as they are or trick themselves into thinking I deserve it but to be honest I don’t know it’s depressing to be treated so terribly by people you used to respect
I don’t think you understand. They don’t know how mean they are because they don’t care. The sooner you realize that there are people who simply don’t care, the better you can protect yourself. Take a deep dive in your mind and talk to someone trusted or a professional, because a pattern of not standing up for yourself can lead to a miserable and punishing life.
Thank you it’s really relieving to say all this out load and hear people who actually care I’ve been walking on eggshells for months and I don’t talk about the stresses in my life and it really has been building I think I do need to stop helping people that don’t treat me with respect but I can’t hate someone even if they deserve it