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Damn 90% of yall issues could be solved with simple communication
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Anonymous 3d

No one under the age of 25 knows how to communicate anymore, I gotta make a tik tok dance to get these bitches to understand

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Anonymous 3d

“I’m ready for my roommate to leave.” 9/10 they never communicated their issues. So the roommate has no clue there’s any issues.

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Anonymous 3d

so true but everyone is scared for some reason

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Anonymous 3d

True but most of the time when one party wants to communicate the other party refuses to

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Anonymous 3d

\(^-^) My roommate doesn’t know how to communicate but will tell her friends and bring them over to try and threaten me like im the bad guy. #LoveCommunications

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Anonymous 3d

it's hard when they're stubborn and when you bring something up, they get defensive about it and all of a sudden i'm the 'crazy one'. can't help the people who don't want to change.

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Anonymous 3d

It’s scary ass hell living with someone who already gives no shits about you, communication is an attack to them because they feel entitled to a space you share. One wrong move and you are no longer safe in your own home.

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Anonymous 2d

literally text her and she hasn’t talked to me for a week

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Anonymous 3d

Told my roommate I’d appreciate it if she wiped the microwave dish bc her food juice is always on it and now she slams doors from 2-6 am, throws coins around at 4 am, and leaves her lamps on overnight after I turn the main light off 🧚‍♀️

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Anonymous 3d

It’s also depends how they communicate. I used to have rm meetings with my old rms. My new rm got mad bc I scheduled a meeting with her and she didn’t like planned things that made her dread talking. She rather I tell her upfront when something’s wrong. That’s not rlly how I like to do things bc then I feel like I’m mothering ppl but I just deal w it

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Anonymous 3d

I’ve asked my roommate to change her behavior in one way or another like 3 times since August and she just keeps doing the same shit

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Anonymous 3d

I do but people get defensive or don’t care to fix it :(

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Anonymous 3d

we’ve tried but she throws tantrums, screams at us and then ghosts us after

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Anonymous 2d

I’ve tried. They ignore me every time/ make the problem worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

😭😭😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Frrrr I don’t think I can even count the amount of times my roommate has refused or changed her mind on needing to communicate or talk things through in person 😑

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

My other roommates and I tried to talk to our problematic roommate and she literally acted like she didn’t have any issues but still talks crap

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Mine likes to play the victim card as though she didn’t do anything wrong 😭. It drives me insane but I calmly shut her down because she LOVES to be a text warrior and create arguments with me over text

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

dude all my problems with my roommate were because we never communicated and now i’m the only one trying to and she just hasn’t responded for a week but ig she’s scared of confrontation and it’s the most annoying thing ever like please stop acting like a child you’re 19😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

Mine doesn’t even answer me or another roommate in the gc and I’m like bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

My roommate and I talked about our issues countless times and talked about solutions and then she never tried to work towards the solutions and meet me halfway. Apparently she only learns I’m serious about things if I take physical action 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

This sounds like a threat ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Yessss mine has done that before, but she mostly just gets unbelievably dramatic and tries to blame me for things instead (I only live with one other girl)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

lol my bad, I should have specified, I meant like not really talking to her, taking the things I own back into my room, etc. I don’t lay hands on anyone, I’m all bark and no bite 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

ME TOO LIKE PLS USE YOUR WORDS

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

LMFAOOOO, literally just made my day 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2d

They only text me to complain

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 2d

SAME

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2d

dude me too it’s like pls grow up

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