
Some leases (mine included) have a policy about needing to accompany your guest while on property. It sounds like yall are in a different situation so it’s chill but I’m not friends with my roommates and I’m not fond of someone’s bf randomly coming out to see me in my underwear making a grilled cheese when I thought I was alone
well it's kind of weird to be in the common space of a shared apartment in your underwear... either way you won't find me in the kitchen 😂 to each their own but id recommend behaving as if you have privacy in the privacy of your room, a shared space typically does not have privacy.
i mean i've known my girlfriend and her roommate for a longgggggg time so that's why it bothers nobody but so long as you stayed in his room i think it's pretty typical behavior (depending on why/ how long he'd be gone, if it's for a whole day or you're staying the night there alone that's weird)
Oh dw i'd never tell you what to do just trying to help you understand that if it's a SHARED space there is no privacy even if it's a shared apartment. basic logic, so wear whatever you want whenever you want sure but don't be surprised when someone else walks into the shared space