Ngl I feel like she’s right. It’s insecure to project your relationship onto her. She should be able to wear what she wants, because your boyfriend shouldn’t look anyways. Your trust is not her issue

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No it is a bit weird, I wear a bralette and sweats at loungewear but if I’m actively going to where my roommate and her bf is ima put on a shirt. Noowww if I was already chillin and they join me that’s a them issue

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i was raised that it’s not appropriate either, but she does have a point it is her house too, but i get why he would be uncomfortable bc there are ppl who weren’t raised in houses where that’s normal... this is a difficult situation

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Maybe you shouldn’t be bringing over guests who are offended/uncomfortable with people wearing the clothes they are comfortable in in their own home

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I don’t think we don’t have enough context. The way this is worded it could be either a lack of respect to a guest’s comfort OR her being done with him constantly being over and just wants to be dressed how she wants in her own house.

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but maybe i'm crazy for thinking it's a little weird

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Is he over constantly? My roommates bf doesn’t leave so it’s bound to happen with him

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my boyfriend comes over a lot and i’ve been living with the same roommate for three years and she is my bsf and she could walk around naked infront of him and i literally don’t care bc it’s her house and as long as she is comfortable i am

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