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looking for advice as a no confrontational girl…my roommate (very confrontational) TEXTED me about a problem while we were both in the apt at the same time instead of talking to me in person (the problem wasn’t anything and it’s fine now but like ???)
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Anonymous 4w

Uh… is it possible she’s also pretty non confrontational and didn’t feel comfortable approaching you in person?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

we’ve been really close for years and she’s always been he type to confront people head on so idrk what’s going on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So, this might be hard since you’re nonconfrontational, but since you’ve been close for years try just asking her what’s up. If it’s important to you that she bring up issues in person instead of over text, tell her that and why you’d prefer it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Also, it might just be that it wasn’t that big a deal to her and that’s why she didn’t feel like she had to have a conversation in person

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