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I live with two sorority girls and they have been so hateful to me that I have had to start therapy to help cope with living here any advice ill take anything at this point im about to drop out and move home
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Anonymous 4d

I don’t think you should drop out but definitely move out/request a room transfer. You can even go to their sorority and report them for the bullying as I’m pretty sure that’s against sorority standards.

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Anonymous 4d

Talk to the C.A.R.E office they can help you. Meir 245

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Anonymous 1d

if youre in a dorm go to your RA or RD they can either help find a solution with them or find a way to move into a different room, if youre in an apartment start finding someone to sublease to and try your best to stay out of the room by finding fun places to go on campus to hang out or hang out with other people/ask new people to hang out, if you have a car take it and park somewhere to hang out in, make sure you put your mental health 1st and try to think positively about urself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

yeah with most sororities they want to appear perfect on the outside so they take it really serious when people outside of the sorority complain to them, i remember multiple chapters where we were voting girls to stay in or be kicked out for being bitches to people outside of the sorority

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

just don’t talk down on yourself all the time bc when i was in a situation like this i blamed it on myself a lot and that just made me spiral even more, just keep telling urself that ur doing ur best and that’s more than enough and better than most people can say, most of the time the mean sorority girls are just the ones stuck in high school doing what they think will make them “popular”

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