
I had a roommate that did this and I told her that I understood that she was having relationship issues and I was very sorry about that, but our room was a shared space that we both paid for and she could not argue with him and cry on the phone at those hours of the night. I also told her that her relationship issues were none of my business and having to listen to it was not only making me lose sleep, but also making me very uncomfortable. 1/2
I told her that if she needed to have a private conversation with him about their relationship, she would have to leave our room to talk to him in her car or somewhere else, or go see him in person to sort things out. I understand that you feel bad for her, but you cannot let her do that to you. Stand your ground. It’s inappropriate and very clearly socially unacceptable. We’re adults, she knows better. Good luck!