Hey partner, let’s slow down. If you’re in a shared space, like a dorm set up, this’ll happen. These are times where you’re allowed to say, “Hey, I wasn’t asleep and that was inappropriate.” This is also a fantastic time to bring up boundaries.

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that’s absolutely disgusting and super inappropriate

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idk abt ruinin her life for that but that’s 100% inappropriate and if you have a convo about it and it doesn’t stop then definitely report them

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And that, folks, is what Title IX is for. It will ruin her life guaranteed.

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I don’t get why ppl don’t just go to the bathroom

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ARE U MF SERIOUS?!?!?

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Ok but as someone who legit had a roommate accuse me of this once. Are you 100% sure? Like was she fully out there open on the bed. Making noises? Etc? Or was she just moving a bit under the sheets? Because I got accused and it was legit just because I breathe really heavy when I sleep sometimes and she thought I was breathing heavy because I was masturbating under the sheets or something. And because I move around in my sleep a lot…

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set boundaries, don’t ruin her life (yet) but if you talk to her about this and set boundaries and she still doesn’t change what she is doing? report her. But if it’s a shared space, this will happen. The least she could do is actually make sure you’re asleep first and keep it down, or go to the bathroom (if the dorm has one)

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