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So annoyed that the friend who hates going out and being in crowds, keeps inviting themselves to our outings that involve crowds. Literally have to end our night or else we are bad friends but also we paid and planned for this outing…
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Anonymous 9w

Let her come next time, but instead of going with her with she’s “overstimulated” (I’m 80% sure she just says that to ruin the night atp), offer to wait with her for her Uber and tell her to text you when she gets back. Basically tell her “if you wanna go home that’s fine but the rest of us are staying out”. Watch her switch up real quick.

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Anonymous 9w

She says “I’m over stimulated it’s too crowded” and then we have to leave. We literally told you we were going to a club, we hadn’t invited you, you just came along. We paid a cover charge and had to leave after 10 min (we hang out with her a lot of other times in thing more comfortable for her, this is just so annoying. She also upplays it for attention)

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Anonymous 9w

More like “they literally abandoned me while I was panicking I was a scared it was awful” type stuff. Actually insane because she doesn’t have panic attacks ever, but she’ll use it as an excuse. We legit have another friend with a panic disorder.

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Anonymous 9w

She sounds like a pick me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Yeah, I just hope that she doesn’t tell over other friends like always

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

What could she possibly say to these “other friends”? “Oh boo hoo I tried to get a whole group of people to waste money and give up their night out because I don’t like going to clubs and all they did was make sure I got home safe”?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Well her other friends can take her to the club then

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Oh 100% a pick me

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