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This is lowkey a multiple parter but I was upset about the fact that my roommate kept buying stuff for our new apartment common spaces without offering communication or if I liked it. It felt a lot like she saw it as hers and not ours.
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Anonymous 2w

I communicated this to her and I’m not exactly sure on how she took it but it was weird. We’ve been roommates before and I had a couple points of frustration but we overall got along. However, she is not very good at communication and will often avoid conflict at all costs. After this point, it’s gotten weird. I’ve always felt like she is not very interested in me and I can’t relate to her as her family is higher income and will try and say that she isn’t rich when she shows that she is and

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Doesnt even realize it. I had explained to her multiple times that I could not afford the place that we are living in for more than one year so I would most likely end up finding a different place after this year. However, once we confirmed we’re not rooming together next year, we hardly ever talk. We used to be comfortable being in the same area, talking whenever the other was around, but now we can only have one conversation per day. She avoids me at all chances and it’s caused me to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Feel extremely anxious about seeing her. It feels as if we have some sort of animosity or tension that no one wants to communicate in fear that it’ll blow up. I’m just frustrated if this is going to be the whole year ends up

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