It’s giving hidden resentment. My friend lost ~15 lbs and I didn’t even bring it up because I was afraid it’d offend her. She was like “you didn’t notice I lost weight?” And then I started to hype her up and encourage her, cause it was safe

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Girl I’m sorry that really fucking sucks and as someone who has also worked hard to lose weight and I can’t imagine how hard it is to have her put you down and make you feel like that. Even if she isn’t blatantly shaming you what she is doing is not ok and you deserve way better. I think it’s amazing you did that and are still able to stay healthy with how she’s treating you.

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…that I was “prettier before” and keeps wanting us to eat at fattening places and pushes for me to eat more than I want to (as in eat her food too after I finished mine). She tries to keep me from working out (literally 30-40 minutes on an elliptical and walking my dog, sometimes swimming) and is annoyed that in public I get more attention than her and even tries to swoop in and claim these guys are hitting on her when I’m talking to them…she literally has a bf tho??

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