Having parties every night, especially on weeknights is ridiculous. Also, bare minimum you should be given head’s up that the party is happening in your shared living space, with or without an invitation. Stuff like this is why I say that you are well within your rights to shut down and kick out parties that are happening in shared spaces without your knowledge or consent.
Exactly, idk rlly what to do bc I feel like I can’t say not to have people over every night since they live there too but it’s just rude they literally scream at the top of their lungs and I feel trapped in my room bc if I go down to the kitchen it’s just awkward …
I get that but what you’re forgetting is that YOU live there too. Sit your roommate down and tell them that they can’t throw parties on weeknights anymore and that you need to at least be notified that they’re happening the day before they do so you have time to arrange to be elsewhere if you want. Tell them you’re not banning parties all together but they need to act like other people live there and not take over the house every night.
Exactly. Like I really have no issue with people being there but on school nights I need to focus and if they could talk at a normal volume it wouldn’t matter. It also kinda pissed me off bc I walked to the kitchen last night while all the people were here and no one even acknowledged me or said hi to me like damn I feel like Harry Potter 😭😭. And since it’s a college town there’s so many noise complaints that they don’t even take my noise complaints seriously