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just moved into my apartment. my roommate’s boyfriend hasn’t left since we got here. 😐 i’m 99% sure he plans on living here.
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Anonymous 5w

So now, you tell your roommate you want to talk about boundaries and expectations for living together. Sit down like adults and have a conversation.

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Anonymous 5w

Girl dont let this crush you, i didnt have this talk with my old roomate and she fucked her boyfriend in front of me the first week she moved in, tried to fuck him on while i was in the room multiple times, the both would stay in his room all the time but still walk in like they owned the fuckin place with no fair warning, ike have that convo and stand your ground

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

yea i’m trying to figure out a way to address it rn. bc this is one of many issues and i don’t want to make her feel bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Her feelings are her responsibility, state the facts and talk about what you need.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

yeaaa i don’t think like that. we’re gonna be here for a year together. and i don’t want to start things off with “your feelings aren’t my problem”. anyways. im seeing my therapist today to talk about it lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It’s not “your feelings aren’t my problem”, it’s “I need you to respect me and my boundaries so lets discuss a compromise that works for both of us”

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