Ok I do get it tho like ya u can definitely have a conversation but if ur tired the last thing u wanna do is have that conversation and then it will probably be brought up later too so simply having whisky dick could just avoid all that itâs not wrong to hope to avoid tough conversations itâs human
CAN you do that? i guess. SHOULD you care enough about other survivors to not want to minimize your shared life-changing experience to a stupid joke that obviously didnât land? i would argue yes. we werenât talking about your experience specifically when you interjected, and you didnât offer any context.
No itâs praying he has whiskey dick so you wonât have to have sex with him against your will. If it was your will to have sex with him youâd just have sex and if you felt comfortable rejecting his sexual advancements you wouldnât wish he had whiskey dick just to get out of having sex with him. Itâs really simple to follow.
Feeling bad for saying no is the problem here. Regardless of why itâs happening. The only reason someone would feel bad for saying no, is if they were made to be uncomfortable (guilted, etc.) after they said no before. You have a right to say no when it comes to your body, and you shouldnât have to âpray for whiskey dickâ to get out of sex you donât want to have. You should just say no and that be the end of it. No guilting, no disrespecting your boundaries.
R u a lesbian? Because I seriously think anyone whoâs into straight men would understand this joke. Itâs not that deep. Men just always be wanting sex. đđ itâs a joke about how u just hoping they donât want it. Iâm sure u could say no, but it just sucks always saying no⊠whatever
I literally have a husband. If you think the best you can hope for is to hope he doesnât happen to want sex so you donât have to if you donât want to, then youâre setting yourself up for failure and abuse. It shouldnât âsuck to say noâ it should be a non issue. You should feel comfortable saying no and knowing that your no will be respected without any pushback at all.