Anonymous #1 1d

GOATED COMMENT

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Anonymous #1 22h

she said there are no bi/lesbian women ("can't find") but keep reaching lmao

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Anonymous #4 13h

Okay, I get what you’re saying, but I don’t get how that’s “lesbophobic?” I feel like that word has gotten watered down

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Anonymous OP 13h

it’s lesbophobic because a lot of people outside of the queer community already believe that lesbians are “faking” or “choosing” their sexuality. that they all secretly like/are attracted to men or haven’t found the right one yet. so to say you want to “go lesbian,” implying it’s a choice, further perpetuates this harmful stereotype people against lesbians specifically. it was probably out of ignorance, so i’m saying it out of love, please don’t falsely identity as a lesbian.

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Anonymous #4 12h

I don’t think it’s exactly the same thing but I get that it sounded weird. I view being bisexual in a different lens I guess. I could become lesbian by fully embracing that part of me and cutting off any interest (though it was very little) in effeminate men (also I’m asexual for men). So idk I guess I’m asexual for effeminate men and all in for women. Idk what to call that though

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Anonymous #5 11h

“Go full lesbian” not much better but you just have to get where I’m coming from

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Anonymous OP 11h

There is no getting it. You cannot just pick and choose whatever sexuality you feel like depending on the situation

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Anonymous #5 11h

No I’m saying I’ve been mistreated by men so much that I literally do not feel attracted to them anymore and I now like only women.

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