don’t listen to your sister i swear. honestly i guess it depends on the girl but ive always hated the playing it cool nonchalant shit. i say treat the girl you like like she’s your friend yknow try not to make it a huge thing and make it feel a little more casual. don’t make the girl wait either cuz that honestly just adds stress and toxicity to your talking stage if you really like somebody TALK TO THEMMM