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college ladies how do i find a man that doesn’t just want hookups. what happened to men that yearn?
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Anonymous 1w

Go for the older ones. The closer they get to the adult dating scene, the more they get scared straight and realize they can’t just hook up anymore. Tbh tho sometimes it’s out of your hands and there’s no way to look that actually makes ur options better

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Anonymous 1w

I had like 10 men tell me that men “can’t” yearn unless it’s sexually. and then got mad at me for “generalizing men” for saying they can’t see women as anything other than something to make their pp hard

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Anonymous 1w

dude I wish I knew what to tell u but I still haven’t found one that isn’t like this. have u tried women?

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Anonymous 1w

My man yearns 😝

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Anonymous 1w

we’re out there u just gotta get out of parties and college bars.

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Anonymous 1w

go for a man for their actions, morals, and words to see if they actually match up, in that order. DO NOT GO FOR JUST THEIR LOOKS AND WORDS

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yes I am 18, dating a 98 year old man and he says he wants to be with me for the rest of his life

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

no, this just means you end up with the same shitty people except now they have more experience with hiding it. age isnt as important as where/how you find them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

the thing is i rarely party or go to bars. i keep to myself- maybe that’s the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

u will not find a good bf at a party or bar; those are the ones that want to fuck

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