
Never once did I say you can’t be a stay at home mom on your own time. But it’s not exactly done in your private life if I and everyone else have to hear about it because some women can’t shut up about how women need to be married, not ask out their boyfriends, never plan a date, never spend money, and live in the lap of luxury just because they were conveniently born with a vagina!
It doesn’t need to be implied, misogyny does not only impact women. Telling a man that he HAS to do something and follow traditional gender roles is also bad and ignorant. It’s not cute, or cunt, or empowering. It’s perpetuating misogyny. If a man doesn’t like you, he’s not gonna ask you out or plan a date. Nothing is stopping you from planning a date! It still doesn’t mean you tell him to stop being a pussy or to man up and do something about it. It means you need to go find someone else.
she let him know what her standard was now he can either agree or move on to someone else. no one has to do anything lol he can easily block her and never talk to her again. he will be okay… i think it’s cunt and empowering for women to let their standards be known. plenty of men have “if you’re fat swipe left” in their bio but god forbid a woman needs the man to plan the date 🙄