I’m a girl BUT my bf says he likes substance, that he wants to grab the pudge and loves me well fed, but is also okay if I fluctuate because he understands bodies change 🥺I def think it’s preference based, but that understanding that all bodies are different and fluctuate shouldn’t be something that a man tolerates or accepts, it should be something that they love too because it’s part of you (I’m 5’8 and I’ve been bouncing from 180-199 lbs, it’s all in the ass and thighs though 😭)
in my opinion i think bringing it up in the first place is kind of weird. if somebody likes you for you i fear it wouldn’t be a topic of discussion. idk maybe i just see it one way bc i’m definitely bigger and my bf doesn’t say much about it except if he’s complimenting me on something specific