
??? They’re asking honestly??? Why would you want them to lie?? Imagine if she was going to like the Deep South or something and everyone convinced her she was passing so she felt more safe and god forbid someone tried to hurt her and she wasn’t more alert because everyone lied??
"they're answering honestly". bro it's you. we can see the reply number. passing irl involves a lot more than visual appearance in a still image, and regardless it's subjective. you're obviously attempting to be cruel in the way you're voicing it, you're TRYING to make her feel as bad as possible and you know it.