Sorority Life on Yik Yak | i genuinely don’t like my big at all. there’s no connection and nothing in common and it just feels so shitty bc i was SO excited to have a big and everyone i went on big/little dates with was so amazing. what do i do?

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Sorority Life 1d

i genuinely don’t like my big at all. there’s no connection and nothing in common and it just feels so shitty bc i was SO excited to have a big and everyone i went on big/little dates with was so amazing. what do i do?

Anonymous 1d

I get this. I was the only girl my big went on a date with so I automatically got her. What I did was genuinely try to reach out, don’t gossip about being unhappy about who you got, it won’t help and will just reinforce in your mind that you’re unhappy and you’ll end up associating it with your sorority. I found another older girl that I really loved and she has acted like a stand in big. Idk if you know this but “adopting” is actually a big thing in sororities too.

Anonymous

#1 1d

My big just took another little and I was really worried that she would treat her worse or she would treat her better, but I’ve found, it really isn’t my job to worry about that. I really like my twin and we can have a relationship without my big too. I also just took twin littles and that has helped a LOT. It makes your big be more involved the bigger your family gets a lot of the time. But even if she doesn’t, take your own littles anyways. Be the big you wish YOU got.

Anonymous

#1 1d

this actually rly helped me adjust my mindset, tysm