Spicy Girl Talk on Yik Yak | if on the first date w hinge guy he wanted to have sex & i told him i wasn’t ready (he respected esp since im a virgin) & now he wants to “hangout” a week later without telling me whats plans

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Spicy Girl Talk 13w

if on the first date w hinge guy he wanted to have sex & i told him i wasn’t ready (he respected esp since im a virgin) & now he wants to “hangout” a week later without telling me whats plans— does that mean he’ll try again?????¿

Anonymous 13w

unless you want this to turn into fwb I wouldn’t see him again. does not sound like a high quality man

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Anonymous 13w

I would give him the benefit of the doubt if you liked your first date, but if it happens again then you have your answer

Anonymous 13w

I would be carful and just tell him what you’re comfortable with immediately. I’ve met a guy out and I told him that I’ll kiss him and dance with him but I’m not having sex with him. He was terrible and tried to pressure me and told me that I must think he’s ugly. I never spoke to him agian and now I set my boundaries. I also had a guy think going out as a friend was dating and he started crying when he tried something romantic because I wanted to be friends. Set boundaries early.

Anonymous 13w

probably make sure the hangout is in a public space

Anonymous

#1 13w

guys rlly try to push it again after you tell them you’re not ready since ur a virgin that soon?? Also we r meeting at 3 pm if that plays into a factor

Anonymous

OP 13w

It’s probs gonna be at his apt

Anonymous

#2 13w

i lowkey already said yes🌚. First date was nice he took me to an expensive dinner but idk if he should be planning a 2nd date or hangout (?)

Anonymous

whiskeystones 13w

Yeah that’s what im doing tomorrow. I just wanted to hear if ppl would think he’d try to again lol

Anonymous

OP 13w

you’ll find out the slow & hard way, bless

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Anonymous

OP 13w

There’s a chance he might, but you have to see for yourself yk. Don’t let anybody get into your head on what he may or may not do

Anonymous

#2 13w

Making me nervous lol

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Anonymous

#2 13w

Why low quality? Sounded like he respected her wishes. If he does it again Id be in agreement with you, but it’s only been a single date.

Anonymous

whiskeystones 13w

Yeah & he asked me not to apologize for not wanting to have sex

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Anonymous

OP 13w

He seems very respectful, I hope you have a good time and you enjoy hanging out with him.

Anonymous

whiskeystones 13w

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Anonymous

#2 13w

I think you’re too quick to put down this person. You have very little context, and the way I see it he was very respectful about it. Again if he tries to push her boundaries then I’m in full agreement w you. But you can’t call someone low quality based on nothing.

Anonymous

whiskeystones 13w

no man asking to have sex on the first date is high quality … so yea also just my opinion you can have yours it’s really not that deep

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Anonymous

#2 13w

Sex on the first date happens all the time tho? I understand we have a difference of opinions, but you’re the one calling this guy out and getting into op’s head. That’s the part that’s not cool in my eyes, be supportive and respectful

Anonymous

whiskeystones 13w

and I said a high quality man isn’t asking for it on the first date not that it doesn’t happen. I could not care less what you do or don’t find cool.

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Anonymous

OP 13w

Are you still alive girl???

Anonymous

#4 13w