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I love my boyfriend but I literally can’t stand this man when he drinks. He becomes this big baby and says the most uncharacteristic shit known to man. It’s such an ick
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Anonymous 5w

i strongly believe alcohol reveals true character. when im drunk i either get super chill, socialable or mildly annoying. ive never been mean, abrasive, combative or babyish because that isnt my natural state. not saying i cant be mean and babyish ever, but only when im in situations that brings it out of me. alcohol brings out ones natural state, when inhibitions are low. be careful

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Anonymous 5w

this gave me flashbacks to my ex and i never noticed the things he did under the influence was just him but 10X more exaggerated and i started to see his real self come through

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Anonymous 5w

Please please please have a conversation with him about this. Also, keep in mind that the “uncharacteristic shit” is a part of the real him without filters.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

ive been thinking abt this a lot lately, and watching how my friends change when they get drunk, i rlly fully believe my “theory”. plenty of people become worse versions of themselves when drinking, it doesnt always mean theyre a bad person, it just means thats what resides inside them that they keep at bay in their regular life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

srry im rambling im very high rn but last thing ima say is by be safe i shouldve said be aware, cause its not like ur unsafe and he’s mean or dangerous when drunk. if u can put up w that behavior then go for it

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