So then it sounds like we need to be doing better as a society to celebrate military appreciation month instead of just using it as an argument to tear down pride. The two aren’t mutually exclusive. Both can be celebrated, we just need to do a better job of celebrating veterans and their families.
You can say the same thing about June- There are only 12 months in a year, so there are lots of meanings for every month. Like alzheimer’s & brain awareness month is also June (I used to work in memory care as a caregiver). Also, sometimes these things are celebrated differently. Military appreciation is frequently celebrated by supporting charities like the VFW by collecting donations (we did that at Burger King, where I also used to work). If you care so much, I’d suggest donating to the VFW