Broke up with my boyfriend because he’s ftm, and I think I always kinda viewed him as a woman subconsciously- that is, until he started hormone therapy. He hates me now, and I get it, but also, I’m just not attracted to men and I can’t help that.
Our biggest downfall rn is we don’t differentiate sexual attraction and gender attraction and it’s leading to a lot of broken hearts and hurt feelings
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Anonymous8w
as long as you explained yourself civilly, you have no reason to feel bad. you know what you’re attracted to and you can’t help that any more than he can’t help who he is. That’s a reasonable thing to break off a relationship for