Anonymous #1 62w

THANK YOU. It takes so much more energy to be upset with someone. I’d rather be chill and laugh with them, not get mad because they’re different. It takes a village to raise children but it also takes a village to raise each other

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Then they need to open up more. They’re not taken seriously because they’re expected to be “manly” and strong. Real strength is admitting when you’re wrong and down. Real strength is also allowing others to help you while you still strive for your independence. I’m a girl so I can’t entirely relate but as a person, I can understand how that would be so upsetting to not be taken seriously

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Anonymous #3 62w

Very true. But what if you talk and he still doesn’t think he needs others? It’s clear that nobody else agrees that men should be independent and idk if enough people think that, maybe he’d think he’s wrong

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Anonymous OP 62w

Idk if we interpreted what he said the same way, I interpreted it as him saying thats how things were and it was out of his control. Which is a situation some people are unfortunately in and they need support. If anything especially the end where he asked men to talk to men, it sounded like he didn’t want men to be independent.

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Anonymous #3 62w

The part I took issue with was him claiming that women rely on men, which is true, we all rely on the people in our lives, regardless of gender.

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Anonymous #3 62w

Is not true*

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Anonymous #3 62w

By downvoting him out of existence we kinda just reinforced for him that he is alone and cannot express it.

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Anonymous OP 62w

Some of us have real strength, but are often ignored entirely or treated like our issues don’t matter. I know a lot of men that feel like ghosts the way we can literally talk about killing ourselves and be completely ignored. I also don’t think this issue is entirely unique to men. I’m so glad I found a therapist and encouraged my friends to do the same.

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Thanks Kroger!

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Kroger keeps it real

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You’re the one crying on social media about no one listening to you. You sound like a teenage girl.

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Y’all are wild 💀

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I decided you were brain dead lol

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Anonymous kroger 62w

Bro stop ragebaiting, u win.

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I’m not rage baiting, I’m keeping it real.

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Anonymous kroger 62w

💀

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Because women should not be expected to have motion. If they want to they can, but being fr if you’re a dude and broke with no ambition then it’s unacceptable.

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They only get a pass from people like kroger. Thats not an accurate depiction of reality.

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Because men and women are different.

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Biologically on a global scale there are massive differences between men and women

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Anonymous kroger 62w

What’s the relevance?

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The point is you serve a different purpose than a women, not observing true purpose is an obfuscation of reality and is what causes depression in men.

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Your not, thats a matter of perspective, that brings class into this too which is a whole other debate.

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Anonymous kroger 62w

Why is purpose objective?

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God is not real

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Anonymous kroger 62w

Purpose is subjective, and you don’t get to tell other people, much less and entire gender or both genders, what their purpose is. You only govern your own purpose.

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Also your world view of “doing whatever makes you happy” is fragile and wimpy. You have a duty to be good at things and useful as a man!

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Anonymous kroger 62w

Says who?

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I’m not buying it, you seem soft. Women deserve more options than working themselves to death.

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Because men were built for war

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Sociology would disagree bud, also what do vaccines and aqueducts have to do with this? This is on par with the LeBron Bundy reference

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Yes of course, ‘scientific study of societies’ is one of the most fraudulent things of all time.

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Anonymous kroger 62w

It’s just people trying to sound smart😀

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*Working together as humans is one of our behaviors

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Anonymous kroger 62w

So they studied it and called it ‘sociology’

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Anonymous kroger 62w

And now you’re saying it’s a scam!

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Anonymous kroger 62w

Holy hell ur both incels, just kiss already.

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Ohhh it’s so unfair😡

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Anonymous kroger 62w

Get used to it kiddo

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I decided you’re a weak human being so I’m gonna continue working

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Anonymous kroger 62w

is this a real TERF? I thought y’all were fairy tales

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Anonymous kroger 62w

I really hope you know that women don’t like people who think like you. The things you’re saying about women are insulting to be honest. You’re trying to alienate us from men for some weird reason. I hope you get help

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