You should actually break up and run

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I would just calmly let him know you aren’t comfortable with it. If he’s telling you he wants to hang out with her then I doubt there is initial desire for her but it could build if they hangout since he does find her attractive.

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I just got cheated on with an emphasis on emotional cheating. He’s a wimp and you will find someone who sees you as enough to check every box, and who loves you enough to never say some weird shit like that. His loss (he’ll get neither of u in the end)

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Have the girl hangout with you and your bf all together

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The guy will do whatever he wants. You being upset shows how much you care about him and I’m sorry this has happened. What do you mean by unofficial date?

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