Anonymous #1 16w

Like seriously it’s what prevents unplanned pregnancies. And in order to stop procreating after we are done having kids birth control is the top method so that we don’t have 10 plus kids or get dangerous pregnancies at 50 for real why are conservatives so dumb sometimes?

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Anonymous #4 16w

For reference I’ve personally tried multiple types of birth control I just think it can be used as a tactic to harm women’s health

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Anonymous OP 16w

Go off queen on all the other stuff but there are ACTUAL studies showing the long term effects of birth control, it does increase your risk of certain cancers and it does mess with your body’s hormones which can be hard on you once you come off them. Go ahead and use them but don’t act like they’re not dangerous or without risks bc then you look ignorant

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Anonymous #4 16w

Well it hasn’t harmed my health

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Anonymous #7 16w

Pills and arm implants cause weight gain. The IUD doesn’t

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Anonymous #5 16w

I’m just saying I’m tired of conversations of society acting like career and single childless women are miserable with their life’s because that’s not true

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Anonymous #6 16w

I mean I’ve been on birth control for 4 years so far.

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Anonymous #8 16w

Ok yes It’s the IUD that’s good. I don’t know why the pills exist as a method they don’t work they don’t even work that well in decreasing pregnancy chances bc most women can’t remember to take it at the right time each day.

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Anonymous OP 16w

I see the opposite and I see tons of childless women encouraging that. And non looking to have a life like I want

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Anonymous #5 16w

I think you’re missing the point. Childless women are just trying to tell women it’s ok to embrace that life style they aren’t telling women not to have kids.

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Anonymous #5 16w

But I see trad wife’s acting like they think it’s so sad that most women nowadays don’t want to be trad or housewives which there’s nothing wrong with if most women choose not to be stat at home wife’s. Like I’m sorry that we choose to have a lifestyle where we aren’t controlled and managed by our husbands just so we can make our own financial decisions without his permission.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Ok

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Anonymous OP 16w

I think it’s sad when women don’t want o have kids, but I don’t really care but I thinks is extremely rude and ignorant of you if you think all traditional wives are controlled and managed by their husbands

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Anonymous #5 16w

That’s not what I entirely meant by that but look you are also talking to a woman who grew up having a housewife as a mother. My dad was the one who had to be the one approving of everything whereas my mom couldn’t give a yes on anything without his permission. Therefore I hated the lifestyle I decided that I don’t want a man in full control lifestyle for myself or my future kids

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Anonymous #5 16w

I mean but honey that’s the definition I’m not saying that there is anything wrong with wanting to be controlled by your husband financially I mean if that’s the lifestyle you want then ok.

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Anonymous #5 16w

Plus I’ve heard horrible stories of housewives getting abused by their husbands and after getting divorced bc they never had a job they can’t afford to live. That’s why I feel wiser working a career than not working one. Bc I’ll never assume divorce, death of my husband, or my husband having to go to a nursing facility for the rest of his life is never going to happen.

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Anonymous OP 16w

I can see how your up raising could make you very against it, and thank you for willing to share all that, I think there are way to have more traditional roles without it being controlling and the bread winner approving all everything. It can turn abusivr but so can any relationship. I think theirs someone for everyone and that any path someone takes can bring them joy

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Anonymous #5 16w

But that doesn’t mean all women are supposed to be more fulfilled being a trad or stay at home wife. Like I’m not gonna sit here and have a trad wife tell me how I will be happier and more fulfilled if I was a trad wife just like her. Bc I know myself very well and I’ve always been more happy staying out of the house and doing something productive and I’ve personally always found making my own income very rewarding and fulfilling and will never sit there and be told that it isn’t.

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Anonymous OP 16w

I agree and if someone expected me to work a job for more then 20 hours a week I would be MISERABLE , just Probally how you see being a stay at home mom/ wife

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Anonymous OP 16w

Genuinely you don’t know what’s going on inside your body. Stop being so arrogantly confident imo. You know how many smokers will adamantly claim that smoking hasn’t hurt them? Most.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Ok so when people are talking bad about birth control they’re probably talking about hormonal birth control

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Anonymous #9 16w

No they are talking about all birth control

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Anonymous OP 16w

Girl you’re starting your own fights 🤣 they are NOT talking about all birth control

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