My ex would say this and I'd just be like wtf are you even talking about?? Tf have you done for me besides ruin my brain and rob me of my peace and joy?? 😭
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Anonymous5w
This phrase immediately sends me into fight or flight. Its why i hate being gifted things or being “treated” to nice things, in my experience its just an excuse to treat you like shit later on
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Anonymous5w
I’m always conflicted by that statement because sometimes it’s valid and other times not so much, but if they’ve done so much, then wouldn’t they be more familiar with what upsets you?
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Anonymous5w
It’s not but asses they manipulate
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Anonymous#15w
example: me getting yelled at for getting the job done, but not doing it their EXACT way (it would make their life harder) and it producing the same result (my way made it less time and labor consuming
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AnonymousOP5w
Maybe you compromised one of their values
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Anonymous#15w
it was shoveling snow.
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AnonymousOP5w
Lmfao
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Anonymous#35w
the same ppl that say this r the ones that got us into shitty situations
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Anonymous#45w
the only time i ever use it personally is when someone acts like i do nothing for them and j become ungrateful. do i expect anything in return? no. but i will bring receipts of me actions if u finna act like i do nothing