
Believe me I’m MORE than happy to disclaim any obligation to have an opinion on abortion, but… does this make any kind of sense at all? I mean, by that logic adults shouldn’t have an opinion on abortion because they’re at no risk of being aborted. And we shouldn’t have an opinion on, say, Ukraine because we’re not the ones invading it. I mean, really this works with ANY issue that doesn’t directly impact you, but do you buy the idea that people shouldn’t care about other people?
He IS at risk though—in this society and economy, it is excruciatingly difficult to actually raise a child alone. So he’s 100% at risk in a non-medical way. He might be taking care of her all 9 months. Some men take time off work for the appointments, and therefore lose money to be by the pregnant individual’s side. There are sacrifices and risks and if a father can love a child that’s born, a man can love the idea of having that child of his own and have to grieve the child, even if aborted.
I’m glad you recognise the stupidity of forcing carrying a foetus. You really should brush up on “autonomy”. You cannot be forced to have your body used in a way you do not want it to be used, even if it would save someone else. You don’t dictate who gets an abortion. Only the pregnant individual does. That’s all there is to it.