Anonymous #1 10w

Ummm no. Just because someone is being nice and treating someone else like a human being, it does not equal the “vibe” of wanting to have a no strings attached sexual encounter

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Anonymous #5 10w

Yeah believe me, there's plenty of guys who actually wanna get to know you first

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Anonymous #6 10w

Yup, same.

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Anonymous #7 10w

Me and my lady have been perfect since day 1, atleast as perfect as we could be

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Anonymous #3 10w

type shit

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Anonymous #5 10w

bro the wrong crowd comes to me, like consistently, it’s so tiring

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Anonymous OP 10w

For them to try to get into your pants you are allowing them in, the wrong crowd comes to everyone, it’s about if you reject it or let it in, and it sounds as if you’re having trouble deciphering wether to let them in or not.

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Anonymous OP 10w

“no, I don’t go with the wrong crowd, the wrong crowd comes to me” we are all humans living in the same world. If you’re having a problem, then it’s you with the problem, not the world.

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Anonymous #12 10w

See, this person gets it!

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Anonymous #2 10w

My evil plan has been uncovered, I don’t care about what’s in her pants, I just want the pants 😈

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Anonymous #4 10w

works on me 100% of the time

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Anonymous #4 10w

How about “you’re cool and I’d like to get to know your pants”

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Anonymous #5 10w

Idk. I meet a guy. Things are great, nothing overly sexual, just getting to know eachother. First date, tries to get into my pants. Doesnt matter if we go out or stay in. If I say no, he keeps trying. Or ghost me. If I say yes, he ghosts me or tries to make it a fwb thing. This has been happening for years and is the reason I haven’t had a bf since high school. It’s exhausting and I don’t necessarily think it’s me because I make it known what I want from the get go. Some men are just like that

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Anonymous #19 10w

Well the problem is you’re having them ghost you when you should be the one leaving. You stated the problem in your response. Let alone it sounds like you jumped into a date before even knowing them which isn’t a good thing now a’days

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Anonymous #5 10w

If I meet someone, talk/text/call for a bit, then go on a date with them— is that not literally how you get to know people? It’s not like I’m saying yes to a date after knowing them for a week. It’s closer to a month of talking, and like I said I don’t let the conversations get sexual or deviant. And I express my intentions from the start. It’s not like I’m texting them feigning for their attention after the first date. It’s usually “I had fun!” And I never hear from them again

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Anonymous #19 10w

So I don’t even get the chance to be the one to “leave” lmao

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Anonymous #19 10w

Find places to hangout or invites to join a group to meet up some, going on a date for a first meet up now is out of the norm

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Anonymous #5 10w

Yeah, I know first dates aren’t the norm. We’ll go to a hangout or casual outing with others and when we are done he still tries to hook up😍 I am telling you right now I do everything that you’re saying and (obligatory some) men still act like this. Congrats if that’s not how u act or your experience but to say it’s solely the woman’s fault is lowkey tone deaf and is excusing shitty behavior

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Anonymous #19 10w

I’m not saying it’s completely your fault, cause yeah the men shouldn’t be acting that way, but there are more good men than bad, so if you’re only finding the bad men, then you’re clearly doing something wrong. Weather it be finding them at parties, or using dating apps(they’re more like hookup apps) you’re doing something wrongful with it. Every good relationship I’ve had I knew the person for months before anything happened. My current gf we worked together for 9 months so we knew eachother..

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Anonymous #5 10w

And knew what we were getting into. Think about where you are finding these people for them to continuously be terrible. Where have the last few been from.

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Anonymous #19 10w

also acceptable, i’ve gotten my foot in the door once or twice by telling a man he has really cool pants and id like to see them off of him (so that I may embroider on them)

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Anonymous #5 10w

What you are saying makes sense on paper but not in practice and I don’t know how else to explain that😭

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Anonymous #4 10w

just tried this on her

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Anonymous #5 10w

girl what? i don’t allow shit, men’s first “flirting” technique is just commenting on my body 90% of the time, im trying to have a normal convo

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Anonymous #16 10w

No I just want the pants tho… like take them off but like I just need the pants

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Anonymous #22 10w

oh I took the pants I embroidered on with me when we broke up

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