it’s a flaw people have that they need to overcome those that do make it don’t need to be victims as they’ve learned to be self reliant, part of that self actualization is to redefine oneself in one’s own image no one who’s come that far would continue to define themselves as anxious. many people have a gay ass deterministic slave morality view of themselves as if they can’t grow and change. Do not allow yourself to stagnate out of laziness