also like.. talking to a crush is generally difficult. sometimes a “you’re such a dumbass 😂💞” is all you got, and when you say it out loud it doesn’t work that way. but still, you gotta learn what works and what doesn’t, and adapt accordingly. one can’t be surprised that a human doesn’t want to be with a person who refuses to respect their human boundaries. i’m definitely missing many factors here, and i’ve been guilty of this myself at times fs, but that’s my take