22 year old black guy here. I can’t stand it when i’m speaking to a white person, and then they start changing their speech just because i’m talking with them. They shift from their traditional way of speaking to using AAVE and it’s so damn annoying.
it's called mirroring, it's a subconscious response of the brain and it shouldn't bother you that means they enjoy being around you
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Anonymous4d
I’m white. Me too. 😂
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Anonymous4d
I get accused of this but I’m Cajun and I stg I don’t do that😭😭😂😂 But I know what you mean
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Anonymous#24d
i get that, and i don’t mind it necessarily in situations like that. i’m more so meaning when they do it pre formatively, and it’s forced in a way. You definitely can feel it
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Anonymous#24d
“it shouldn’t bother you” are you black?
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AnonymousOP4d
i love that you dwelled on that for exactly 43 minutes and then typed another response 😂 let me try again- if you understood human psychology and had a bit of compassion, it WOULDN'T bother you.
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Anonymous#34d
nahhhh YOU get a pass, that’s fine 😂i’m more so talking bout the north eastern folks lol. yall down there in the bayou get a pass